The RHOP star opens up about single life, her quest for love, and shocking twists in Season 9

Ashley Darby, one of The Real Housewives of Potomac’s most vibrant stars, is looking ahead to 2025 with a fresh mindset and a clear vision for her future. After officially filing for divorce from Michael Darby on November 20, Ashley, 36, is ready to embrace the next chapter of her life—and perhaps, a new love story.

Manifesting the Perfect Ring and Wedding

Ashley isn’t shy about her romantic aspirations. Speaking exclusively to Us Weekly, she revealed her determination to find love again and even described the engagement ring of her dreams.

“I will be married again,” Ashley confidently declared. “I know what ring I want and everything. She’s stunning. She’s the pear shape, a nice little single gold band, but she’s at least three and a half carats minimum.”

Having picked out her first engagement ring at just 16, Ashley is a firm believer in the power of manifestation. While she keeps her vision board close, her current focus remains on navigating life as a single mom to her two sons, Dean, 5, and Dylan, 3.

A Cordial Split and Positive Co-Parenting

Ashley’s divorce from Michael Darby, 64, marks the end of an era, but the former couple has handled the split with grace. Michael confirmed to TMZ that they reached an “amicable and fair settlement.”

Despite the end of their marriage, Ashley praised their co-parenting dynamic, sharing how their efforts have positively impacted their children.

“We’ve gotten into a good stride,” she said. “It doesn’t help that my kids are so young and cute, and they really like seeing mommy and dad together still. Little things like walking together on Halloween make them so happy. It reminds me that this process isn’t just about me—it’s about my kids too.”

Balancing Love and Independence

As Ashley navigates single life, she’s exploring new romantic opportunities while appearing on Peacock’s Love Hotel. Although tight-lipped about her experience on the show, Ashley hinted at being open to love but firm in her individuality.

“I like a small wedding, but what if I’m with someone who’s in the public eye or comes from a big family?” she mused. “The more I’m single, the less I like the word ‘compromise.’ I really like doing things my own way.”

Drama on the Horizon for RHOP Season 9

While her personal life is evolving, Ashley remains a central figure on The Real Housewives of Potomac. Teasing an unforgettable cast trip during Bravo Fan Fest 2024, Ashley hinted at a shocking betrayal from someone she once considered a close friend.

“It was a very big turning point for our group,” she revealed. “Someone I trusted acted in a way that I never expected. It’s something I’ll never forget or trust again.”

Fans can expect explosive confrontations and no-holds-barred honesty in the rest of Season 9. “Nobody held back this season,” Ashley shared. “If something smelled fishy or didn’t sit right, everyone said it. I really appreciated how raw and real we were.”

Looking Forward

As Ashley continues to balance motherhood, independence, and her search for love, she’s embracing all the opportunities life has to offer. With her sights set on a dazzling engagement ring and a bright future, Ashley proves she’s not just surviving—she’s thriving.

Catch new episodes of The Real Housewives of Potomac every Sunday at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo. Past seasons are available for streaming on Peacock.